I've come to a place where I bridge two sides of coaching. First, there is the strategy side which says if you do this, then you'll have this result. But there is way more to success than following a simple strategy.
Ask yourself, why does a strategy often not work for so many people? It probably worked for the one that created it but it cannot apply to all. How many times have you seen someone try to apply a strategy that worked well for somebody else but not for them?
Results come from a combination of an approach that’s right for you, plus you. Sounds simple right? Well, it is. The problem is when the strategy doesn’t match the person.
Even as successful people we often come to a point in life where what we’ve been doing no longer works. This can happen in business, in relationships, in parenting, in health or fitness — we can hit a plateau, and repeating the current strategy will not budge you off the plateau.
What's missing is freshness... a new understanding, an unblocking of the flow of your innate nature from deep inside.
Coaching can truly offer you a new awareness, a new perception, and a new way of experiencing yourself in life, and life in yourself.
1) Coaching allows you to come alive to yourself, by waking you up to who you really are, to what is already inside you, to the spiritual spark that comes before you have an idea... before something shows up in form.
When you learn how to find that place in yourself (that aliveness) and live it more and more, it lights you up -- you experience those moments that are often spoken of as flow or being in the zone. This experience is one of joy. What we’re all about is having more of that.
2) Coaching helps you learn to navigate life beyond your psychology -- your habitual ways of thinking about life.
Most coaching takes the approach of "let's fix your psychology, let's find out how you're broken" and then "let's fix it." There are over 400 psychologies offering you a different theory about what's broken and how to fix it.
I came to the realization several years ago that success is our true nature, just like wellbeing is our true nature. When we are not in our wellbeing, we are out of alignment.
When we are not in success, we are out of alignment.
So, we don't need to mess with fixing your psychology. We go beyond it, by uncovering your true self. What I call your innate personal leadership.
3) Being in a transformative coaching conversation supports you in creating your life as a really beautiful experience.
Most people who desire coaching would like to have a change in some part of life, or they really want to create impact, or they really desire to achieve something new for the sake of having a new life experience.
Instead of working solely on creating your dream life and business, we go about it a little bit differently. In order to create the amazing things you desire, you need to be able to navigate life relatively free of your psychology. So we uncover the you, that God-given, natural you that always works, is always present, and always was present, long before the part that isn’t working ever got there. Instead of sticking a band-aid on what isn’t working, we build on the solid foundation that lies beneath all that, that is you.
We uncover your Elegant Personal Leadership™ Style through a process based on ancient wisdom and modern science.
It is not a fixing. Rather it is an uncovering of what's already inside you... before your psychology — your beliefs, your habits, your mindset -- got a hold of you.
This is what's so beautiful — you relax into who you are, you become a woman lit up about who you are, and you live life with more grace and joy, and satisfaction and fulfillment because life becomes so much easier for you.
My clients find that their income goes up dramatically as a result. Giving that result in my clients gives me such happiness.
I am so incredibly excited and grateful to be doing this work with women like you.
It is a joy when a woman discovers much more deeply who she is. That ‘aha’ moment when a whole new vision opens up.
Then, after uncovering your unique Elegant Personal Leadership™ Style, we create your success blueprint together — actually most often, the blueprint unfolds organically from the discovery of your true self.
This is why I love coaching... because I don't come from a place of fixing -- there's nothing wrong with you. Rather together, we bring you home to your true self.
Life becomes fun and fulfilling, easier, elegant and graceful, and oh so much more chic and successful.
I'll meet you on your journey with a glass of champagne to celebrate!
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Françoise Everett, MS is a facilitator, feminine leadership coach, author, speaker and lifestyle business owner. She works and supports women entrepreneurs and women who hold leadership positions by unlocking their inner wisdom, feminine power, and hidden richness.