Alright. I know. I know. You think this is too easy.
"Don't I have to work at this? Don't I have to have some skin in the game?" you ask?
Yes, you do have to work.
As human beings, we must take action.
Of course, you're not creating life merely meditating on the couch.
However, women I speak with are now skeptical about the possibility of creating success from wellbeing and ease. With wellbeing and ease.
Harmonizing wellbeing and success.
Take a deep breath. You are so deeply conditioned that you don't believe it's really possible for you.
Darling, it's ok.
I got to that place too.
I thought other people were teaching bullsh*t at one point... like it was too good to be true.
Why? Because I wasn't experiencing it. And therein lies the difference.
I was stuck with a misunderstanding.
It's not too good to be true. You're trying to figure out 'the how' with your intellect, and 'the how' lives far outside of your intellect. That's the hard part, especially for us well educated women.
I invite you. Read that last paragraph again!
When you have the understanding, it's no longer hard. It's fluid.
What's required, is for you to go back to your grounding, before you were conditioned.
There is no working through it.
There is just passing through it.
Traveling through it.
Having the awareness of Thought, and then letting it be.
It is FREEING!
We no longer believe we can have wellbeing and ease because mostly what we've been taught, even in coaching, is that we have to take on tools, and techniques, and methodologies, and overcome, and push through and only then, can we be victorious!
What if believing this is as false as believing that the earth is flat and that the sun revolves around the earth? Today, you would argue for the earth being round and it revolving around the sun.
And this knowing doesn't require any effort on your part, does it?
So, what's so hard to believe, that you, we, might have had it backwards for a long time?
Over the last six months, I have been indeed harmonizing business with wellbeing. For one, I had to. I had lost my way in both business and wellbeing, which forced me to question everything about my life, and what I really want.
That's a really great thing, actually! Not always fun in the moment, but so powerful in the rebuilding, the creating life newly each moment with wellbeing in life and business together.
A new, solid foundation.
Not to mention workable.
Feminine. With the masculine.
When you create from your true nature, the feminine and the masculine go hand in hand. They come out balanced. You don't have to impose one on the other, or bring them into balance because they flow together naturally.
Because that is how incredibly well designed you are!
Curious? Might you want to explore how this inside out understanding can help you right now?
You have absolutely nothing to lose, and everything to gain. Not the least of which is yourself!
Ready? Let’s talk!
ps - check out my FB LIVE this morning on Healthy, Well-Rested and RICH in the Elegance.Business.Lifestyle FB Group!
Françoise Everett, MS is a facilitator, feminine leadership coach, author, speaker and lifestyle business owner. She works and supports women entrepreneurs and women who hold leadership positions by unlocking their inner wisdom, feminine power, and hidden richness.